He made the cut and called again...Awesome! But even if the first date went amazingly well, it’s the second that often determines if things are going to move forward or fizzle out. Here’s how to make sure that second date isn’t your last.
1. Break Out the Bandage Dress
You wore jeans, heels, and a cute top on the first date, right? Nice. This time, you’ll want to keep his attention and wear something that really makes his jaw drop. “You don’t want to look sleazy or show too much skin, but physical attraction and chemistry are very important to men, and he needs to feel that early on for a relationship to develop.
2. Tell Him More About Yourself...but Not Too Much
Maybe you two really hit it off the first time you went out, and you feel like you can tell him anything. That’s cool and all, but don’t do it. True, the whole point of a second date is to get to know each other better, yet spilling a ton of personal details won’t create true compatibility and can even turn a guy off
3. Touch Him Flirtatiously
You spent the first date trading coy comments and one-liners. Now, amp things up by being a little more physically flirtatious. We’re not suggesting you rest your hand on his thigh all through dinner. But warm, playful gestures—such as touching his upper arm briefly or giving his forearm a quick, light squeeze.
4. Leave Him Wanting More
If you’re really interested in a guy for long-term potential, don’t hook up post-date. Really, getting physical too soon can freak a guy out afterward, even if he was totally into you. put the brakes on hooking up so he actually has the chance to chase you a little. Just end the night with a sexy liplock—and know that it will leave him dying to see you again for date number three.
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