Thursday, June 24, 2010

No matter who is going down on whom, the goal is to make it as pleasure filled as possible. But since hardly anyone talks about it, it's tough to get the good, juicy tips you need to make it mind-blowing.

"Invisible oral" can boost your pleasure.

A shocking number of women have trouble mentally letting go and enjoying oral. Sound like you? Try keeping the lights off so you can't see him. You'll have fewer distractions and be able to focus.

His "boys" want to join the party.

Fifty-one percent of men complain that their girlfriends ignore their balls during oral. Try this trick: While your hand strokes his shaft, take one testicle at a time into your mouth and lightly suck.

Lube can taste good.

If you're going to be down there for a while, you may get a case of cotton mouth, which can cause chafing on his penis. Lube can fix that.











You're probably missing a spot.

Here's a secret erogenous zone that you should definitely hit while you're down there: Trail your tongue down his shaft to the area between his testicles and the base. Purse your lips together, and lightly suck on the patch of skin. It's packed with nerve endings, so any attention you give it will feel heavenly.

Sometimes thinking dirty is a bad idea.

The primary reason women give sex therapists for not wanting their guy down there is they worry they smell. Your guy probably loves your aroma, but you can eliminate that concern by taking a quick half-shower before a date. You will feel much fresher and won't worry about a funky fragrance.





How to Persuade Him to Return the Favor...

If your guy doesn't always dive headfirst between your legs, it's time to drop a serious hint.











Conduct a taste test.

Pick up flavored lube samples, then tell your guy you want him to find out which tastes best on you.

Steps to Ace a Second Date

He made the cut and called again...Awesome! But even if the first date went amazingly well, it’s the second that often determines if things are going to move forward or fizzle out. Here’s how to make sure that second date isn’t your last.

1. Break Out the Bandage Dress


You wore jeans, heels, and a cute top on the first date, right? Nice. This time, you’ll want to keep his attention and wear something that really makes his jaw drop. “You don’t want to look sleazy or show too much skin, but physical attraction and chemistry are very important to men, and he needs to feel that early on for a relationship to develop.
 
2. Tell Him More About Yourself...but Not Too Much


Maybe you two really hit it off the first time you went out, and you feel like you can tell him anything. That’s cool and all, but don’t do it. True, the whole point of a second date is to get to know each other better, yet spilling a ton of personal details won’t create true compatibility and can even turn a guy off
 
3. Touch Him Flirtatiously


You spent the first date trading coy comments and one-liners. Now, amp things up by being a little more physically flirtatious. We’re not suggesting you rest your hand on his thigh all through dinner. But warm, playful gestures—such as touching his upper arm briefly or giving his forearm a quick, light squeeze.
 
4. Leave Him Wanting More


If you’re really interested in a guy for long-term potential, don’t hook up post-date. Really, getting physical too soon can freak a guy out afterward, even if he was totally into you.  put the brakes on hooking up so he actually has the chance to chase you a little. Just end the night with a sexy liplock—and know that it will leave him dying to see you again for date number three.

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