XOTIC SECRETS

No matter who is going down on whom, the goal is to make it as pleasure filled as possible. But since hardly anyone talks about it, it's tough to get the good, juicy tips you need to make it mind-blowing.

"Invisible oral" can boost your pleasure.

A shocking number of women have trouble mentally letting go and enjoying oral. Sound like you? Try keeping the lights off so you can't see him. You'll have fewer distractions and be able to focus.

His "boys" want to join the party.

Fifty-one percent of men complain that their girlfriends ignore their balls during oral. Try this trick: While your hand strokes his shaft, take one testicle at a time into your mouth and lightly suck.

Lube can taste good.

If you're going to be down there for a while, you may get a case of cotton mouth, which can cause chafing on his penis. Lube can fix that.











You're probably missing a spot.

Here's a secret erogenous zone that you should definitely hit while you're down there: Trail your tongue down his shaft to the area between his testicles and the base. Purse your lips together, and lightly suck on the patch of skin. It's packed with nerve endings, so any attention you give it will feel heavenly.

Sometimes thinking dirty is a bad idea.

The primary reason women give sex therapists for not wanting their guy down there is they worry they smell. Your guy probably loves your aroma, but you can eliminate that concern by taking a quick half-shower before a date. You will feel much fresher and won't worry about a funky fragrance.





How to Persuade Him to Return the Favor...

If your guy doesn't always dive headfirst between your legs, it's time to drop a serious hint.











Conduct a taste test.

Pick up flavored lube samples, then tell your guy you want him to find out which tastes best on you.